Well Max, dunno if this will help.... But i was having the same problems myself. I would try and log on and it said that my computer was behind a firewall and I needed to change my settings or that the firewall server was down. The only change in my system had been that my brother had been visiting and i had him hooked up to my computer via another network card so he could share my Cable connection through my computer. It worked fine Before, During, but not after. Only changes i had made were to diable that card which also turned off the connection sharing that was going. When i tried to log on later that day after work, I got the messages you were talking about. I tried everything i knew to do (aside from calling my brother over to hook up his computer) but to no avail. So, sad as though it may seem, I did somethign else for a while, there was this strange box in my living room called a "TV" that i watched for a while. That was a fortunate turn of events as i found out that there was a war or something going on. Then i ate dinner, a very nice New York steak if i recall. (Unlike Vulcans, Romulans are NOT vegetarians) SO, before going to bed i tried to log on D2 and did so successfully. Everything worked fine (except the chat) and was as it was before. This led me to the assumtion that it was something on the D2 server end since i don't run a firewall on my system.
I deny of course that I have no firewall, because no Romulan would leave his system unprotected......