Oh Adam, you have nothing to apologize for; you're certainly not the first, or last, to bask JJ Trek.
Lesee Norsehound, you can opine about disliking and discounting 85% of Trek (TNG etc) but can't bear to hear someone else's opinion? How terrible for you.
No one here is complaining about the effects in TOS, and I think Knightstorm is wrong about the "campiness." "Campy" is Lost In Space or Batman-1966; like the effects, TOS might seem dated because it's a TV show but we're not bashing that either. (Watch "Gunsmoke" or "Mission Impossible" - it was the style of the times) The point isn't that every episode must be allegorical, but the point is that Trek has always been more than just "adventure." You complained about "navel gazing," which is why I mention "Amok Time," full of actor-ly worry over Spock's health and life choices, and themes of friendship vs duty. "Naked Time" exposed inner feelings of the characters, the chinks in Kirk's persona and Spock's love for his mother; more of the namby-pamby, un-macho moments that you disdain in TNG. I wouldn't call "Let This be Your Last Battlefield" a great episode either, but it's not "TV to teach you something," but "let's see an alien species that takes it to the extreme." Might I add, that most of these allegorical/moralily episodes were still a blast to watch - we wouldn't stil be talking about this show today if it wasn't good.
I personally don't think ST2 is all it's cracked up to be either. It's another comic-book-plotted Star Wars clone; it has the TOS characterizations that were missing from STTMP but with silly ship's bells and a super-evil bad guy that isn't much like the dude in "Space Seed." For my money, the first real "Star Trek" movie was ST3. I think you can make a action-filled, blockbuster type movie but still stay true to the characters from the TV show, pleasing fans and non-fans along the way - it's called Star Trek First Contact and it's probably the best "true" Star Trek movie made to date.
Dr Who is probably not the best analogy either - it's maintained a truer sense of it's roots than JJ-Trek has, and also has a long history of "reinventing" itself. Tom Baker and Matt Smith surely play the part differently, but when they say, "I'm the Doctor," you believe them. Nothing against Chris Pine as an actor, but when his car-stealing punk Kirk goes from cadet to Captain in 20 minutes simply because the audience know he's James T Kirk, that's poor scripting. Believe me, Dr Who fans are not nearly as divided over "new-vs-old" as Trek fans currently are. It's something that just has to be excepted these days that JJ Trek is going to illicit these reactions without apology.