from what I heard on the theory of this second moon, is their actually could have been more then one extra, but the others would have spun off. As for distance and speed out it could have been on one of the other langual (sic) points, they are not as stable.
From the guy I listened to on the moon being hit by this other smaller moon, it was a really slow speed impact (for space that is). About twice the speed of a bullet. The simulations of the impact showed it could have wabbbled the orbit of the moon, alittle. Or might even have put alittle spin on the moon when it hit, that slowed and quit naturally. now that slight rotation could be why the impact is on the far side of the moon, it could have happened on what would have been the side, imparted alittle spin, and made the impact look like it was on the far side.
Personally I am not so sure about this theory, but it was worked out. It is also based on the huge impact theory of creation of our moon.