I've been thinking for days, how to approach this, as I think the world of both Kreeargh, and Nemesis here.
First, I enjoyed the article that was posted Kree, and I got a chuckle out of the comment, even taking it as a joke.
Second, I can understand how the intent behind the Smiley may have been mis read. I think it goes beyond saying, that there was never any effort to insult in any way shape or form.
Now, that doesn't mean I don't understand Nemesis's POV here, IT could be a cultural thing in fact. I'm not sure. I can remember teasing my kids when they where younger, and they would stick out their tongues in the raspberry sort of way. I never took it as an insult and always laughed myself at it. Now it may be different in Nem's area.
Another example, is when I was in the corp, It was a direct insult when someone talked to you with their arms crossed, but in civilian life, it was just the norm. Heck I even taught a class years ago, on how a variant, one arm across, the other up rubbing your chin, would allow you to get in a BiJong fighting position in micro seconds. Unobtrusive body language to combat in the blink of an eye, but I digress, just wanted to show another example.
I think this was just a misunderstanding here, and I hope that you will continue to feel free to post in this section. I can also understand how Nem came to his conclusion, as over the years, he has a very analytical mind.
ask yourselves this my friends, had this conversation taken place in real time, amongst friends, where we could witness body language, I believe the whole thing would take on a jovial meaning. I believe you all could see it also.
I just wanted to say something, and I hope I have not offended anyone, as I have the utmost respect for us all here. I ask that we just chalk this up to a misunderstanding, and we get back to having fun with the topics.
The both of you are great, and bring a unique talent to our discussions, One that I have came to cherish in my years here, and I hope that you can see it in each other, as well as yourselves.
Stephen