Topic: DH, WTF is going on...?

[GDA-S'Cipio]

I'm just glad it's up, and I will be on this week.  (I had family plans for this weekend, so I couldn't be on at the scheduled launch).

Building a server is a *lot* of work even before you launch it, so I'm grateful to DH for putting this one together even if he has no more to do with it.  Now we have a server built and ready to run.

And a very special thanks to Pesty for taking over.  Good save, my friend.

There, I think I've gotten all the touchy-feely estrogen out of my system for a bit.  Damn, too many women in my house these days......

-S'Cipio

[Nemesis]

There, I think I've gotten all the touchy-feely estrogen out of my system for a bit.  Damn, too many women in my house these days......

-S'Cipio

Does that mean you are not flying Gorn this time? 

[KBF MalaK]

OK, Sorry if I appeared to be 'not nice', I won't expect anything from DH anymore- free or not.

NO I've never ran a server or a bbs (bigger than 10 members).

Again, sorry for being rude as I only expected what was promised (and have been waiting months like everyone else),

You needn't worry about me- you won't be bothered with me anymore.

You have to understand that the Server (or System) Operator cannot be there constantly and things WILL go wrong.  They don't have a staff there at all times to handle issues.  The Operator does it all on the time he can spare from his own life.  For a server Operator that can mean that for YOU and I to play means he can't as he is handling those "issues" that come up and responding to complaints.  It also means that when the Operator gets a chance to check things they can have a day or more of problems and complaints and escalating tempers to deal with all at the same time and with only a limited time to do it.  That gets frustrating and difficult and not everyone handles the pressure well.

Consider.  If YOU were disappointed merely because you expected to be able to play at a given time, how much MORE was Diehard disappointed to find his hard work not operating and the complaints piling up?

Even when things go wrong the Server Operators deserve thanks for their efforts and praise for even trying.  Not complaints.  Point out flaws and issues to them yes, but be nice and don't forget the thank yous for the efforts they make.

If it wasn't for the

Forget  you Not so nice person.   This entitlement attitude that some people have make me want to beat them to death with a shovel.   May your children defecate on your wife's favorite towels.

* edited.

comment I wouldn't be bothered so much, but everyone who knows DH knows he's got a potty mouth- so I KNOW exactly what he wrote before he edited it, I remember a tiff we had about 18 months ago on TS and I vowed THEN never to speak or write to him again. I must have forgot about my promise to myself. So that behind us I've been thinking about it for the last 24 hours and have decided I want nothing more to do with his BS so I won't be participating on this server and I've notified LK to NOT expect me to help. I've removed all OP software from my PC as well as all the mods needed for the server.  It's all I can do to NOT request my account termination from Dyna as my hope is to forget this incident over time but that may take a few months.

In the mean time hope it goes well for you all, and maybe someday we'll ALL forget about this.

FU DH- Thats (Forget U, DieHard)

[FPF-DieHard]

FU DH- Thats (Forget U, DieHard)

I love you too man. 

Guys, please stop making a mountain out of a molehill.   Nobody else gang up on Malak, when I shoot my mouth off I can defend myself. 

[Corbomite]

FU DH- Thats (Forget U, DieHard)

I love you too man. 

Guys, please stop making a mountain out of a molehill.   Nobody else gang up on Malak, when I shoot my mouth off I can defend myself. 

Well why don't you shoot off an apology then and we can get back to the fun? Your response was OTT.

[FPF-DieHard]

Well why don't you shoot off an apology then and we can get back to the fun? Your response was OTT.

I apologize if my over-reaction offended anyones feelings.   

Now can we loose the vaginas and start killing each other?   WTF is this, Oprah?   Should I start jumping on a couch holding a picture of Kroma shouting 'I Love this woman!!!!" 

All this talking about our feelings makes me want to eat red meat and buy a firearm.

[KBF-Crim]

Guys, please stop making a mountain out of a molehill.   

Well what the hell are we suppossed to make the mountain out of then??

Sheesh

[FPF-DieHard]

Guys, please stop making a mountain out of a molehill.   

Well what the hell are we suppossed to make the mountain out of then??

Sheesh

Cheese! 

[Farfarer]

Time for thread deletion.