VirtualBox 'worked' best for me, however, I set it up with a virtual network, so I could build thing with max9, save it to 3ds on the virtual drive/folder, then boot up VirtualBox/Max5 and continue making adjustment for SFC. Even dumping a gig of ram into the box, it still ran rather sluggish ... probably more a vista issue than anything else ...
It would be well worth your time and effort to research your box ... find all, and I do mean all ... the drivers you'll need to run XP. I sifted through 60-70 HP customer complaint forum pages until I found a way to get this Compaq Presario (that shipped with Vista and allegedly had Vista ONLY components - don't believe the hype) XP compliant ... and computing has never been better since. (and NOW, that extra gig of ram isn't going so much to waste anymore ...)
JM.