Topic: How evil was your ex?

[Beeblebrox]

Then she would grab them by the hair and start swinging them around the room. Often I found bruises on there arms and backs, but she always denied hitting them when I was at work, but I did not believer her.

Dude, where were the cops? 

[Centurus]

Ah that type of evil, o.k. let me tell you about my other Ex wife, with whom I had two children (foolish move, but I still love them too bits).

While we were married she would empty my bank account treating my ex mother-in-law to lavish lunches and buying expensive clothes. This was to the detriment of the two children for whom I struggled to buy descent shoes, clothes, etc. To this day i don't know how she kept getting into my account, but for the children's sake, I kept quiet and carried on working 12 hour shifts, 7 days a week.

She used to just flip and start screaming and shouting at the children "you moron", "spastic", "retard", etc. Then she would grab them by the hair and start swinging them around the room. Often I found bruises on there arms and backs, but she always denied hitting them when I was at work, but I did not believer her.

The youngest was so unsure about herself I used to have to sit in the 'Brownies' with her, the eldest never left my side.

Of course when I was present we used to have massive rows as I tried to stop her abusing the children.

When my children were old enough, I explained to them that I was leaving and would find a place for the 3 of use, cash was real tight so I could not take them with me straight away. There are no refuges for fathers and their children, only mothers. I told my ex wife, big mistake, the above was just child's play for what happened then. 

Worfy. 

My deepest sympathies to your history and the way your children were treated. 

Send that ex wife of yours my way.  My family will most definately straighten her out. 

[Hstaphath_XC]

If I ever get the current custody battle (that has been going on for over two years now) settled, I have one HELL of a story for you guys...

At least I have had emergency custody of my oldest daughter for the last year... even if I have had to continue paying full child support.