i found out what the want, not sure that will realy help but i will try.
the game is patch the video card got the latesd driver and the sound card also have it now, if the game still crash back to the desk top then its there game that got a problem.
the game is: Glory of the Roman Empire
the other game that crash after 10 minutes of play is: Sid Meier's Civilization 4
its anoying when there game got problem and it never there fault, its because you don't have the requirement for the game or you don't have the lates driver for the video card, sound card, cpu, bio, mother board, monitor, keyboard, mouse, speakers, cd/dvd, usb port, ect.