We don"t have enough players to restrict playing any further. I would be happy with no disengaging, no penalties, no pvp VCs. Lots of carnage, space debris and fun. The DNs on AOTK3 were cheap enough that DN losses weren't a tragedy. The Heavy Iron rules meant a balance of ship types.
Alternatively, how about you aren't banned but you have to play in the game-assigned replacement ship for an hour...or its replacement, then its replacement...