Thanks everyone for the info,
So besides the two things I mentioned nothing is missing from OP that isn't included in EAW?
Also do I need to pay attention to this? I have XP w/SP2 -- This note was with my copy of OP:
("multi-player however is what gives the game its replay value. The network libraries stopped working with Windows XP SP2, to counter that, someone (thank you!) has made an installer with the libraries from SFC3 (SFCOP_DLL_Updater.exe), these DLL files appear to work fine in most cases.
Even with the library from SFC3 installed, the network can be unstable. Try to give the direct IP. It can take 10-20 seconds for the game to recognize the host. For reasons unknown, some computers can not host games, try to set another computer as the host and it might work. Remember to set your software firewall to allow the game.")