Tobin dude, relax. Its just a game.
Sure we play to win, but that come second to having fun for us. I think many of your pilots have a similar outlook, I've always had a great deal of respect for the KHH for exactly that reason. I hope you also share this, your post in apparent anger makes me wonder.
If we enjoy the occassional shots at our wingman so what? I agree its likely more in Primes character (along with the Syndicate) not to shoot at wingmen and thats a good point, but I think you'd not do it anyhow judging from your post. Everyone enjoys themselves differently.
As for your position on the map, well it has its advantages and disadvantages you just have to do your best to maximize the former and minimize the later. You choose your cartel yourself, whether because of its starting position or due to its ships, you take the good with the bad, but you choose Prime yourself don't go blaming others, you made your own bed to a great extent.
You guys are doing well finishing first in the first round. You've got some great pilots and you've used your advantages in ships to good effect with some of the best PvP guys at the helm of them.
Listen Tobin, your a good guy and a a great pilot, but I know you are the ultra competitive sort and thats cool, just don't take the game so seriously that you have too many "Die Hard" moments where you blow a fuse, instead I suggest you relax, do your best given the situation, have fun and play with the honor you are known for. This becomes you much better than rants.
P.S. That "Sunday Push" was no planned operation, just good timing by chance.