LoL you are a funny Romulan. I believe you will find that if your shiplist is showing variations with nearly everyone you fly against, it is your shiplist that is out. Nearly all(98%) of my opponents have the same shiplist with no variations. Those that know me would know I would never fly a modded ship unless all players had it. That does not go to say that I won't fly vs someone with a different list as that does happen. Even if only 1 ship in the whole list is different, it shows, so no sweat. I volunteer to send you the 4.0 I use, which matches nearly everyone. I can send it via GSA, just be warned it is a big file, and I have found those guys who use the one without the models often have variances. I believe the Models file shiplist vs the nomodels file shiplist has a variation somewhere.
I will look into the shiplists and see if we can find something more balanced in the rom favor. BTW, Feds are almost never flown by me, so dont judge Fed pilots by my skills as most Fed pilots fly them much better than I do. I do hope that more members of your group try out GSA now and again. I would gladly fly with them and perhaps they can teach me as much as I may be able to teach them, if there is anything I can teach them.
I hope you mean 8 EST . either way I will be on way before and way after that time, like I usually am