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Concerning Pesty... Updated
« on: October 14, 2005, 01:08:16 pm »
Hail everyone,

Sorry I have been gone without a trace.. I have not been able to afford to get a connection to take care of people's PM's or emails.. It will be a while longer I am afraid.. give me about 3 months to get my life sorted.. thanks.


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« Last Edit: October 15, 2005, 12:02:42 pm by Pestalence_XC »
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Re: Concerning Pesty
« Reply #1 on: October 14, 2005, 01:11:40 pm »
This sucks.   let us know if there is anything we can do.
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Re: Concerning Pesty
« Reply #2 on: October 14, 2005, 02:36:54 pm »
He LIVES!

Get back to us asap. We've all been wondering about u. Glad ur ok.

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Re: Concerning Pesty
« Reply #3 on: October 14, 2005, 03:31:49 pm »
  It is good to hear from you anyways lookward to hearing from you in few months.ttfn

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Re: Concerning Pesty
« Reply #4 on: October 14, 2005, 05:05:50 pm »

Glad to hear you are ok Pesty :thumbsup:

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Re: Concerning Pesty
« Reply #5 on: October 15, 2005, 07:13:14 am »
Glad your ok Bud  :)  was getting worried. If there's anything we can do to help just let us know !



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Re: Concerning Pesty
« Reply #6 on: October 15, 2005, 11:36:50 am »
Well, let me state that I disappeared because my finances right now are non existant.. add on top of that I owe child support.. add on top of that that after 7 years of not seeing my x-wife and both of us having a mutual hatred toward each other (I hated her for the divorce and I showed it towards her when I saw her.. she hated me for hating her and because her father hates me.. her mother was indifferent, but went along with her father), for the last 3 months we have been talking and are now considering the possibility of getting back together (which is something I have alway tried to do, but I couldn't let go of the hatred towards her for divorcing me to begin with.. I have now forgiven her, but in the past I couldn't).. the cause of our divorce was due to her parents interference.. and now after extensive communication over the last 3 months.. my family.. my x, my child, and I are working to becoming a complete family again... it is nothing short of a miracle.. but, I am sorry that this community has to suffer for this because I love hanging out here and I consider all of you my friends, but currently I lost everything I owned and am having to start re-building my life and a life with my family from scratch.. litterally, including a place of employment near Seguin TX... Unless one of you have a vehicle you are willing to donate and/or about $855 for me to borrow to take care of immediate needs (and payback may take a while), then I am afraid that I have to depart this community for a while longer until I get things worked out on my end...

My child means everything to me and now I have a chance to have my family back that I never wanted to lose in the first place (I didn't want the divorce).. I have to concentrate all my time and energy into that aspect of my life.. I will pop in from time to time now that I have access to a terminal however, I will not be able to pop in often.. possibly 1 to 2 times a month..

If any of you can help... Leave me a PM on this board and I will get in touch by phone when I am able to check my PMs.. thanks..

Thanks everyone for understanding.. I really feel the friendship on this board and in this community.. It does not go unappreciated at all.

I'll check back soon..
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Re: Concerning Pesty... Updated
« Reply #7 on: October 15, 2005, 03:04:15 pm »
Hail everyone,

Sorry I have been gone without a trace.. I have not been able to afford to get a connection to take care of people's PM's or emails.. It will be a while longer I am afraid.. give me about 3 months to get my life sorted.. thanks.


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Sorry I can't help you. But best wishes to you. You're one of the reasons I like this place...
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Re: Concerning Pesty... Updated
« Reply #8 on: October 16, 2005, 03:16:32 am »
Family comes first, glad to hear your working things out with your wife... PM sent    :thumbsup:
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Re: Concerning Pesty... Updated
« Reply #9 on: October 16, 2005, 04:11:36 am »
Seguin, huh? I live near O'Connor and I35. I'll buy ya lunch if ya wanna meet me there at Jim's restraunt. Kinda went thru a bit of what ur going thru, or we can talk about SFC.  ;D

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Re: Concerning Pesty... Updated
« Reply #10 on: October 16, 2005, 04:44:05 pm »
Dizzy.. would like to hook up with ya over there.. but I have to get things sorted.. once I have enough to get a cell I'll PM ya the number and we can chat after 7 pm.. (the service I am getting has 200 daytime min, free night and weekends starting at 7 PM, and no long distance or roaming for $35 a month.. but the problem is getting the $50 that they want to get the service started.. I've responded to a PM from one who is offering to help.. I spilled the entire sich to him.. so I hope that I can at least get communicating with different businesses here instead of walking over 4 miles 2 times a day..

Anyhow.. thanks for the offer Dizzy.. once I get a phone going.. I'll shoot you the number.. currently I am posting messages here from the local library.. they only give 1 Hr a day here.. so my time is up now..

Chat with ya'll later.
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Re: Concerning Pesty... Updated
« Reply #11 on: October 16, 2005, 05:32:01 pm »
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Re: Concerning Pesty... Updated
« Reply #12 on: October 17, 2005, 12:09:16 pm »
 Take all the time you need I am sure Dizzy,Diehard and Tracey will keep the Dyna warm for you and I will look forward into joining you .

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Re: Concerning Pesty... Updated
« Reply #13 on: October 17, 2005, 12:14:40 pm »
Well got a voucher from Sal Army for emergency contact with my family.. I shenageled it into a regular service contract that I described above.. so now I have a phone.. just waiting for the service to activate.. I'll PM you the number this afternoon Dizzy.... I'm going to sign off now until I get the number for it so I have time to post again later..


to everyone else.. it will be a while before I can come back.. maybe 3 months presently if everything keeps going like it is.. just know I have not abandonded this community or my friends here.. you guys are great and I want to thank you all for your support...

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Re: Concerning Pesty... Updated
« Reply #14 on: October 17, 2005, 12:20:01 pm »
  When you do read this or get a chance to I still hope you have your laptop and all your files stored on disks.

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Re: Concerning Pesty... Updated
« Reply #15 on: October 17, 2005, 12:27:17 pm »
When you do read this or get a chance to I still hope you have your laptop and all your files stored on disks.

I have everything from my last system backed up and all my software disks.. the problem is I have no comp currently... that is something that will have to wait until after my X and I are living together again and I get people paid back.. like I said about 3 months.. maybe 4....

but I still have all my software and files.. thank God..

anyhow.. catch you all later.
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