My windows firewall IS disabled, and in case it really isn't i've ste the appropriate settings for it anyway, but im very sure it isn't on because the box sayign what it is protecting is unchecked for my LAN-HIGH SPEED internet connection. Only my back up dialup is checked.
In the past, say early this year i played SFC3 on alternate B with Zone alarm on, MEdium setting allows sharing of resources but cannot change my files etc, so im 100% sure medium setting works and allows the game to run.
Pings.... now thats a different matter, i remembered not allowing those on my router. Which i will delve into now.
I checked my zone alarm, directplay8 and helper thing is both set to allow, norton antivirus worm protection also manual configerd to allow firectplay8 and the helper and SFC3 all pass to the internet and In to my PC.
Now il just have to check out this ping thing....