You know why we have mis understandings? Because you never talk anything out. Just ignore conflicts. I used to be that way. Doesn't work. Stuff never gets resolved if all your buddies tell me what an a** I am and give me -200 Karma but you and I never talk.
Just perpetuates the cycle I would say. Mis understanings happe, they don't just go away but tend to keep happening without some kinda dialouge.