Very good info here..
Here is my "potential" config.
I do not plan on haveing monster files on web. In fact, I want it to support server play much in the same way Bonks Web Front End supports the Server. That and A bit of odds and ends...Move the IRIS website over. Email server for the family (optional) and enough remaining Bandwidth where the spouse will derive benefit and I can play OP (and occasionally City of Heroes) with a teamspeak/RogerWilco or what ever is in vogue. That is it. I do not dl gigabits of media with expicit naughty bits, its not my thing. I was hopeing all the above would fit into one of the higher end SDSL packages available, since the cable provider in my area cannot meet my minimum requirements.
All the information here is quite useful, I will get the Phatest pipe I can afford, and hope for the best. My step-brother has coded for pay and is a gamer, though has not installed the OP I gave him (he too busy for games these dayz) but the prospect of becoming an Game Master/ Net Admin might compell him to take an interest. If not, there are a few alternatives I have yet to explore. The time frame is post holiday ---> tax return time. But Strategic Operations of this magnatude, require serious preparation of the battlefield.