I really don't think that Steve Cole harbors all these ill feelings that you attribute to him. Not only did he post in the sourcecode thread, but he even took the time to respond personally (3 times to 2 e-mails that I sent him) to me and said in one, "Let me know if I was helpful and/or what else you need from me", in reference to his posts. While it doesn't seem like much, I asked him to come by, and he did. He didn't have to and probably wouldn't have if he felt as you say, IMO.
The last Capt. Log had an article on SFC and SFB based mods for it, as well. I haven't read it, but OP+ was mentioned as well as others, from what I understand. Plus there is an SFC forum still at ADB's sight. None of this sounds like he doesn't like or appreciate the SFC community.
He gets very gruff and short when people criticise SFB and it's staff or contributers on ADB's site. He doesn't hesitate to say that if you don't like it then don't buy it and go away. I think that's where a lot of people get their negative ideas about him.