Topic: Well... (Read 23754 times)

Clark Kent · « **Reply #60 on:** August 30, 2004, 10:00:07 am »

Here's what you do:
Get a dog that likes to hump people's legs and leave the dog out in the area that this cop spies on you. After a few leg humpings he'll either shoot the dog, or not come back. Either way, You win!!!

Clark Kent · « **Reply #61 on:** August 30, 2004, 10:50:03 am »

Also, EE,
Keep said dog away from the girl. Don't need the mutt movin in on your territory.

Hstaphath_XC · « **Reply #62 on:** August 30, 2004, 12:27:19 pm »

Wait a minute EE!

Are we to understand that you STILL haven't let that poor girl know how you feel about her?!

Heck, I KNOW you are shy about such things and all, but Jeez... do you want me to have a talk with her?

Clark Kent · « **Reply #63 on:** August 30, 2004, 12:35:43 pm »

Our vaunted hero in this little opera is doing his best not to push her and allow her time to heal from past issues before he tries to push that kind of pressure on her. We may think he should go for it, but it's his choice, and we have to trust in our hero to do the right thing.
Either that or change the channel.

EE · « **Reply #64 on:** August 30, 2004, 04:44:13 pm »

I think she may have some idea but who knows. some friends were trying to set me up with this one chick but I did not dig her. She came up to me and asked me what I thought of 'the chicl' and I said that she would be a cool friend but other then that, there is nothing there. I also stated that I feel bad because everyone was trying so hard ( way too hard ) to make this set up work( one that I did not even ask nor want to happen ) and I did not know how to tell 'the chick' that I was not interested. I then mentioned to her that ' its been so long, I dont think I could tell someone I liked how I felt'. *Hint hint*

lol. Anyways, got my new phone, gots a camera. only $270 stolen from me. time to get dressed and get my ass headed to the coffee shop and then off to work. this week starts the 70 hour weeks and $680 a week paychecks ( after taxes )

take care all and I will see you after 8am tomorrow morning

EE · « **Reply #65 on:** August 30, 2004, 04:45:34 pm »

Quote from: Hstaphath_XC on August 30, 2004, 12:27:19 pm

Wait a minute EE!

Are we to understand that you STILL haven't let that poor girl know how you feel about her?!

Heck, I KNOW you are shy about such things and all, but Jeez... do you want me to have a talk with her?

Heyya Hepp. I am sure you see her posting in my LJ every once in a while, no where near as much a she was. I do want to give her space to decide on what she wants to do. If she decides on nothing I am cool with that. I would sooner keep the friendship strong then do anything to damage that.

Mentat Jon · « **Reply #66 on:** August 30, 2004, 06:18:55 pm »

Well : Noun, a deep shaft were poatable waters can be drawn from within

Redshift the Kook · « **Reply #67 on:** August 31, 2004, 04:15:50 am »

Oh poor EE

Think about it, would you ever be able to move on in this current situation? I doubt it. Sure you've kept a friend but you'll also become a monk for life in doing so! Does anyone else around you know how you feel about her?

EE · « **Reply #68 on:** August 31, 2004, 09:06:53 am »

Only one person knows anything about anything. Chances of it getting out are slim to none and if it did, I know where it came from. I would sooner stay friends then screw things up. Its not worth it to do or say anything unless I have a good idea that she feels the same. It would ruin the friendship or at least hurt it and I dont want that. I can go without for the greater good.

Hstaphath_XC · « **Reply #69 on:** August 31, 2004, 10:16:45 am »

Quote from: EE on August 31, 2004, 09:06:53 am

... unless I have a good idea that she feels the same.

Looks to me like that is the next thing on the "to-do" list right there.

Now, how to go about finding out... the hints you have been using with her may indeed be far to subtle.

EE · « **Reply #70 on:** September 01, 2004, 09:09:41 am »

LOL. The best thing to entice a chick is to get injured and sure enough it happened. Got hit by a forklift at work today, I will post more when I wake up but to let everyone know, I am fine. bruising, swelling, nothing serious, looked worse then it was. did break the pallet in two places with my left shin. that was rather neat, hearing the wood crack ( thinking it was my bones ) and still working the entire night.

Clark Kent · « **Reply #71 on:** September 01, 2004, 09:17:17 am »

Been there, and it sucks.
Talk to the girl and let her know about your injuries. See if you can get a little florence Nightingale thing goin on...
When she comes over to nurse you back to health, make sure the dog we talked about is not around though.

EE · « **Reply #72 on:** September 01, 2004, 09:30:47 am »

lol. I dont know whats going on with the whole situation. I get some things and then some things I dont get. Its like this.

I got a Text Message from her at work yesterday ( monday to you guys ) that reads like this...

"Sorry I haven't talked to you lately... I've been super depressed... Woul you like to get together when you have time? Tomorrow?"

Now, she knows she gets off work at 5-5:30pm and that I have to leave for work at 6:30pm. The earliest she can get down here is 5:30pm which leaves maybe 1 hour, which I would cherrish but hell, it does not leave much time. It does on the other hand beat out all the time I have spent with her in over a month since I started this job.

So, I see her at the coffee shop today ( tuesday night ) for about 15 minutes and the most I got was a simi-hug from her and no real conversation. This is starting to really annoy me. anyways, I dont know whats going on. The rave is this Saturday and well, we will see how things go then. I am about to just say funk it for now. She needs her space and god damnit I want to help her if she is depressed or whatever but whenever I try to do the friend thing, she pushes me away and I dont know why.

I dont want to go reading into whats not there or what I think might be there and isnt really but I am totally confused as to what the hell to do. I feel like I should give her the space she needs, which I told her I would do in a voice mail I left her. Problem is, she wont really talk to me. oh well.

All my life is, is work and sleep anyhow. I dont have much time for much else with conflicting work cycles. I guess her previous comment of " I miss hanging out with you and we dont hang out as often as I would like " was a lie. I have weekends.

Clark Kent · « **Reply #73 on:** September 01, 2004, 10:11:11 am »

"I'm depressed" explains alot, actually. When people are dpressed they often want someone to be there for the, and when someone's not there it feeds the depression. At the same time, the depression screw you up and you (often times almost intentionally) end up pushing away the very people you want to be around you. the end result is that the depression is fed either way (in the short run). If she's depressed, be there for her. Make an effort to talk to her regularly and see how she's doing. If she pushes you away be nice, and tell her you have to go ort something politely and leave her alone till the next day or maybe a bit longer, but not too long. This way, both neeeds are met- her need to support and caring and her need for some space.
If you ust leave her space it won' help anything.
Brian

EE · « **Reply #74 on:** September 01, 2004, 04:00:36 pm »

almost every time I try to communicate with her I get the cold shoulder. Its getting to be so annoying I just dont even want to bother with it anymore. Anyways. Again, this weekend will tell. I am starting to get into the mood of not eatting again and having trouble sleeping. I have had 14 hours sleep since sunday night. Gotta love the frustration.

EE · « **Reply #75 on:** September 03, 2004, 11:02:26 am »

1 more day of work and then its Noctournal Wonderland! WOO HOO!

Hoepfully I can find out where things stand then as well. She has been push me away a bit more but she did send me a email saying, " im going to call you when i get off work... i need to talk to you real quickly..." so umm, I dont know whats up with that. Perhaps its about someone else, me or squirrles, who knows. Anyways, it has been a 13 hour work day, my ankle is killing me, my foot is starting to show signs of bruising and I need rest.

Hstaphath_XC · « **Reply #76 on:** September 03, 2004, 12:44:56 pm »

Quote from: EE on September 03, 2004, 11:02:26 am

... Perhaps its about someone else, me or squirrles, who knows.

Well, she DOES have a thing for squirrels, ya know. They give her noots.

Have a great weekend, bro. Please let us know how it turns out!

Redshift the Kook · « **Reply #77 on:** September 03, 2004, 01:07:14 pm »

Quote from: Hstaphath_XC on September 03, 2004, 12:44:56 pm

Please let us know how it turns out!

Ditto!

EE · « **Reply #78 on:** September 03, 2004, 05:10:19 pm »

and now this reply,

" what time do you work tonight? do you think i can stop by?

sa!!y "

WTH is going on, all of a sudden she wants to contact me? well, illl see how this goes.

EE · « **Reply #79 on:** September 04, 2004, 07:52:02 am »

OK, So I go to work with no call from her, I text message her with no responce. I do end up calling her on my lunch break and she answers the phone. She tells me that she needs to talk to me. So I decide rather then talk on the phone, I will head down the the coffee shop.

I get to the shop and quite a few of my friends are there, I get leared at by 'playa' as I leave to have a walk with sally and talk with her. We walk down a ways, away from the patio, sit down and start talking about stuff. She says that she wants to go to the rave but since her ex is going, she wont be going and gives me the ticket back. I ask her why she doesnt want to go and she says that her ex is the reason, apparently they have gotten into 4+ arguments in the last 2 weeks, she then proceeds to start crying. Not knowing what to do, I give her a hug ( which may have been a bad idea, noting I had been working in a hot warehouse for 3 hours prior to this ). She calms down and we talk for about 20 minutes until I have to leave for work.

She says that she misses me and wants to hang out with me more often. We have also made plans to hang out on Sunday or Monday, since she cant go to the rave, I told her we will do something for her birthday, she sounded happy about that.

So thats pretty much it. I know shes not pissed at me which is a major plus, I know we are still friends and we get to hang out on sunday or monday. Unforutnatly, I really wanted her to go to the rave so she could relax, unwind and enjoy a night of no pressures.

Well, my workweek is over, I need to get me some sleep so I can do laundery before the rave. Ill be back 2pm PST

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