Topic: Well...

[Dash Jones]

what i need is something to keep my mind busy. A game or something.

Get Doom 3.

Or go to fileplanet and download all their full games that are time trialed, and download all their free demos that you haven't tried yet....that should give you at least 24 hours worth of gaming...

[EE]

Today did not go to bad. Got to kick it with Sally for about 2 hours without joe being there, got to catch up on some stuff which was really nice. We both had a really good time I think. She proceeded to find my weakpoint, that I embrase easy. I dont think I have turned that red in a LONG time. Only one other person has that power over me and well, I have not seen her since I was about 18 years old. It was a nice change of pace and really helped out with some of the stress over this whole thing. Also, she was wearing glasses which were OMFG sexy. OMFG!! I keep telling her she nees to wear her glasses more and others told her that they looked really good so hey, I got some backing on it hehe.

Around 10pm joe showed up, which kinda made me nervous. The thing that really set me off was the tea I had. My stomach and tea dont mix well. I have to condition my stomach to drinking tea otherwise it goes crazy. Well, I decided I was going to get some tea and didnt relise how strong it was. after maybe half a glass I felt like I was going to hurl. Maybe it was my nerves played a role in it but otherwise the night went well. I had a blast kicking it with her and I hope she had the same. We are supposed to kick it tomorrow so I hope plans dont fall through the cracks again. I know she may have a follow up appointment at the dentist tomorrow so its possible she wont be able to but I hope she can make it.

Stress level is at its lowest setting right now. joe was cool with me, I am becoming cool with him and Sally at the same time. I am starting to be able to cope a little better with the jealousy I am feeling. But its natural to be jealous so well, not to worried. Just hope this possible job comes through.

anyways, time for bed, might get a call early tomorrow.

[Iceman]

You over analyise a problem EE. You seem to sit down and get caught up in an endless loop of possible solutions to your problem, and in the end you seem to arrive right back where you started.

What you need to do is simple. Either get over this girl and move on...or make a move on her. Because this is getting to the point of boarderline obsession.

You know I've never posted in this particular thread, but just reading that post, you have no idea how much it just helped me out. Sometimes you've just gotta hear it from someone other than yourself.

[Redshift the Kook]

You over analyise a problem EE. You seem to sit down and get caught up in an endless loop of possible solutions to your problem, and in the end you seem to arrive right back where you started.

What you need to do is simple. Either get over this girl and move on...or make a move on her. Because this is getting to the point of boarderline obsession.

You know I've never posted in this particular thread, but just reading that post, you have no idea how much it just helped me out. Sometimes you've just gotta hear it from someone other than yourself.

Pun is harsh but he speaketh the truth! Everyone, including me, can over analyise a situation and more often than not it is more to excorcise the feelings you get after having a situation or experience that you wish you can change but can't.

[Redshift the Kook]

Yeah, the pictures turned out really well...obviously I wasn't the one taking them.

I didn't even realize it was a chain of bars until I checked the website the day after.  It also explained the live entertainment stuff they had...which was sh*t but understandable.

Hey RS, have you heard of a club called Fabric in London?  My friend from Vienna decided to come up for the weekend, and as its her birthday I thought we'd go clubbing in style.  I've heard good things about this place, and though it's 15 pounds to get in, I thought we'd check it out.

Ah I'm really sorry Ken, I've hardly been to any clubs in London, (only a few crappy ones), I don't live there and only go there to see a couple of mates every few months. Mind you, for £15 it had better be good.  I think some of the best clubs are up North, Cream in Liverpool being one of the more notable ones. If you get the chance to go to that you'll have a whale of a time.

Sorry, for someone living in the UK I'm not much of a guide. 

[oldmanken]

Well, we've heard some good thing about it, so we're going to give it a shot.

BTW, what part of England are you in RS?

[Jack Morris]

I wish I could go clubbing with you guys, but right now I need to concentrate on me. I hope that ya'll have a blast.

[Redshift the Kook]

Well, we've heard some good thing about it, so we're going to give it a shot.

BTW, what part of England are you in RS?

I live in Hampshire, in a town between Southampton and Portsmouth on the coast. It's quite nice down here if a little mildly uninteresting. I think it's about 80 odd miles from London.

[oldmanken]

I've actually been down that way before when I previously visited my sister.  Spent the day down in Portsmouth, which was quite nice.  Went to some military museum there which had a tank out front of it, and found it to be pretty sweet.

[Redshift the Kook]

I've actually been down that way before when I previously visited my sister.  Spent the day down in Portsmouth, which was quite nice.  Went to some military museum there which had a tank out front of it, and found it to be pretty sweet.

Yeah, Portsmouth is OK for the history and military stuff, HMS Victory is worth a visit as well as the Mary Rose and the Warrior. Heck, I'd invite you down but I've got some hardcore work issues to deal with, (I'm thinking of handing my notice in tomorrow).  Getting a job in the UK isn't hard, most companies are screaming for staff, but finding a job I can handle on a day to day basis is another thing. Maybe people in the US and Canada wouldn't smypathise so much with this situation but things are a bit different over here. 

[Just plain old Punisher]

I didn't intent to be harsh, I only recognize something I've seen in myself. Let me ask you this EE. If you have, say, a quick 5 minute encounter with this person and then haven't seen them for awhile...do you rehash almost every second of that encounter in your mind? Do you Analise the persons body language to exacting detail to the point to where even the smallest gesture or inflection must mean something important?

Was she angry at me? What could I have done differently? Should I have said this and not that?

Do you tend to pick apart everything this person says, and examine it from every angle that you can?

You can lay awake at night thinking and thinking and thinking, never letting your mind shut down. And in the end, after you lose sleep, stress yourself to the point of ulcer...have you made any progress? This isn't a harsh judgement, just questions I've had to ask myself at one point or another.

There's a difference, IMHO, between playing hard to get....and playing with your mind. I don't really pretend to fully understand the situation, but I do see some things that are cause for concern. You're an excellent diplomat EE, and a pretty good detective -- You're very carefull to avoid conflict or making things difficult. You also sit down and put a whole lot of thought into this girls actions. But I don't think diplomacy or detecting is going to get you far in this one, because I think you've already found out what you need to know about this person.

Or to sum it up in a few words....it really shouldn't be this hard.


Just my two cents.

[Jack Morris]

Excellent post Pun, as I also have been there and done that in my younger years, and it SUCKED!

[EE]

If you have, say, a quick 5 minute encounter with this person and then haven't seen them for awhile...do you rehash almost every second of that encounter in your mind?

nope.

Do you Analise the persons body language to exacting detail to the point to where even the smallest gesture or inflection must mean something important?

If I said or did something wrong or possibly wrong, then yes, otherwise no.

Was she angry at me? What could I have done differently? Should I have said this and not that?

Not really. Stuff, like the letter and our talk, I could have done or said differently. Things I could have re-worded but thats not in the back of my mind at all. The most I thought about with that is how I could have rephrased to be more clear but it was understood.

Do you tend to pick apart everything this person says, and examine it from every angle that you can?

no, she is a very straight forward person, much like myself. Just occationally she is cryptic and I have to think about it a bit but I try not to think to hard on it

You can lay awake at night thinking and thinking and thinking, never letting your mind shut down. And in the end, after you lose sleep, stress yourself to the point of ulcer...have you made any progress?

nope, generally I just fall to sleep unless I go to bed early and am not tired but I have news radio to keep my mind in check

There's a difference, IMHO, between playing hard to get....and playing with your mind.

I dont think she is playing with my mind. That totally is not her style. I know her position with him, they have known eachother about 8 times longer then I have known her. I also know she had a crush on him for a while, something she told me and I told her I knew about. She may be playing hard to get but I dont know. I am just attempting to deal with the situation best I can. I am becoming more accepting of it but my jealousy gets in the way sometimes.

I don't really pretend to fully understand the situation, but I do see some things that are cause for concern. You're an excellent diplomat EE, and a pretty good detective -- You're very carefull to avoid conflict or making things difficult.

I dont fully understand the situation myself, sadly. Hopefully in time I will understand better. What things do you see as a cause of concern?

As for the diplomatic relations, I want things to be as easy on her as possible. I dont want to pressure her, I want her to be happy, if its not with me and someone else, then thats cool. I hope it can be me but if not, that matters little. Shes one of my best friends and maybe its best staying that way, who knows. In time I will have my answers... I hope.

You also sit down and put a whole lot of thought into this girls actions.

I put a lot of thought into peoples actions, it allows me to figure them out. to an extent

 

But I don't think diplomacy or detecting is going to get you far in this one, because I think you've already found out what you need to know about this person.

Perhaps the answer is so obvious that I just dont see it. explain what you think is going on.

[Clark Kent]

OK EE, here's what you need to do:
You need an edge, something to entice her away from the playa and into your arms.
SO I said to myself, "self, what can EE do to entice the chick?"  and after some deliberate thought, I said "well self, what he needs is to be more of a man."
So, how do I become more of a man? You ask?  Simple- cardivascular exercise.  you see, cardivascular exercise increases over all health, vitality, strength and endurance.  Now endurance is a good thing for a man to have, and chicks dig it, but there's more.  Now, if you remember your anatomy and physiology, the male anatomy depends higly on bloodflow.  What do these two things have in common, you ask?  Simple- cardivascular exercise also increases bloodflow, and to some degree overall blood levels.  More blood and better bloodflow means more blood for the male anatomy, giving you your natural enhancement, which will impress her.
Now I know your sacriligious and blashpamous comments on wanting tiny bewbies, which I don't want to here again, you pagan monkey bastard, but if you tell me how a large male anatomy is a turn off for you as well, then, quite franly, we are no longer friends.

[EE]

OK EE, here's what you need to do:
You need an edge, something to entice her away from the playa and into your arms.
SO I said to myself, "self, what can EE do to entice the chick?"  and after some deliberate thought, I said "well self, what he needs is to be more of a man."
So, how do I become more of a man? You ask?  Simple- cardivascular exercise.  you see, cardivascular exercise increases over all health, vitality, strength and endurance.  Now endurance is a good thing for a man to have, and chicks dig it, but there's more.  Now, if you remember your anatomy and physiology, the male anatomy depends higly on bloodflow.  What do these two things have in common, you ask?  Simple- cardivascular exercise also increases bloodflow, and to some degree overall blood levels.  More blood and better bloodflow means more blood for the male anatomy, giving you your natural enhancement, which will impress her.
Now I know your sacriligious and blashpamous comments on wanting tiny bewbies, which I don't want to here again, you pagan monkey bastard, but if you tell me how a large male anatomy is a turn off for you as well, then, quite franly, we are no longer friends.

Ok, first off, the thing she hates most is muscular men. She doesnt mind a little flab here and there.

endurance wise, well, lets say I can handle 14 hours moving over 10 tons of crap in a night, she weighs 100 lbs and well, I think i am prepared.

second off, my manhood is thicker then her wrist, I dont think I will leave her with wanting more though thats not what I am after.

And its not that I want tiny bewbies, as you so put it. I just dont like big ones. mid B, Mid C max, depending on height. She is 5 feet tall, she is pushing on the large for her size, which is 34 B but it doesnt look bad on her. I cant say where I have ever been impressed with D's because it just looks foul.

I must add something. I worked at a strip club for a year, I have seen more then my fair share of D's and well, not a single pair, real or fake, ever looked good. Then again, I dont like blondes either. I just dont follow the typical american brainwashing that a big titted blonde is whats best.

also, thanks for the laugh.

[Iceman]

OK EE, here's what you need to do:
You need an edge, something to entice her away from the playa and into your arms.
SO I said to myself, "self, what can EE do to entice the chick?"  and after some deliberate thought, I said "well self, what he needs is to be more of a man."
So, how do I become more of a man? You ask?  Simple- cardivascular exercise.  you see, cardivascular exercise increases over all health, vitality, strength and endurance.  Now endurance is a good thing for a man to have, and chicks dig it, but there's more.  Now, if you remember your anatomy and physiology, the male anatomy depends higly on bloodflow.  What do these two things have in common, you ask?  Simple- cardivascular exercise also increases bloodflow, and to some degree overall blood levels.  More blood and better bloodflow means more blood for the male anatomy, giving you your natural enhancement, which will impress her.
Now I know your sacriligious and blashpamous comments on wanting tiny bewbies, which I don't want to here again, you pagan monkey bastard, but if you tell me how a large male anatomy is a turn off for you as well, then, quite franly, we are no longer friends.

Good laugh after a long night, but OH so true!

[Clark Kent]

Ok, first off, the thing she hates most is muscular men. She doesnt mind a little flab here and there.

endurance wise, well, lets say I can handle 14 hours moving over 10 tons of crap in a night, she weighs 100 lbs and well, I think i am prepared.

second off, my manhood is thicker then her wrist, I dont think I will leave her with wanting more though thats not what I am after.

And its not that I want tiny bewbies, as you so put it. I just dont like big ones. mid B, Mid C max, depending on height. She is 5 feet tall, she is pushing on the large for her size, which is 34 B but it doesnt look bad on her. I cant say where I have ever been impressed with D's because it just looks foul.

I must add something. I worked at a strip club for a year, I have seen more then my fair share of D's and well, not a single pair, real or fake, ever looked good. Then again, I dont like blondes either. I just dont follow the typical american brainwashing that a big titted blonde is whats best.

also, thanks for the laugh.

1. I'm not sayong become buff, just more cariovascularly fit.
2. Thicker than her wrotst huh?  I've never met a girl with 3/8 inch wrists before.
3. B's are not large by any means.  I don't know what spawns this fear of the bewbies for you, but I suggest you seek professional help, because it's just plain wrong.
4. Is this strip club you worked at hiring?
5. Glad I could give you a good laugh dude

[EE]

The club is under new ownership, It used to be Deja Vu but now its a Larry Flint's Hustler Club. I would never do that job again.

[oldmanken]

CK,

It's all about proportions my man.  Even so, large breasts are just unatractive...though I'm more of an ass man.  Anything more than a handful is just a waste, as far as I'm concerned.

[EE]

1. I'm not sayong become buff, just more cariovascularly fit.

I am

2. Thicker than her wrotst huh?  I've never met a girl with 3/8 inch wrists before.

lol

3. B's are not large by any means.  I don't know what spawns this fear of the bewbies for you, but I suggest you seek professional help, because it's just plain wrong.

depends on hieght. if shes 5 foot, B is fine, if she is 6 foot, which honestly, I dont like tall chicks, C is fine but it also depends on body structure.

4. Is this strip club you worked at hiring?

yeah but I refuse to work there.

5. Glad I could give you a good laugh dude

A good laugh is always needed