Topic: Well... (Read 23493 times)

EE · « **Reply #100 on:** September 13, 2004, 12:41:25 am »

Today was an outstanding day for me. First off, I head off to the coffee shop because I was bored at home and who do I find there? Her. I sit down, thinking things would be rather odd but instead, she comes over, sits on my lap and gives me a big what felt like 2 minute hug. After that we go watch Napoleon Dynamite, which rules and then kicked it at the coffee shop until 10pm. So I kicked it with her and her ex for about 11 hours. Today was a good day in my eyes, my stress and such has been relieved, I know she isnt pissed at me, which umm... means that the message I left her saying sorry is gonna be rather odd because I know she has not read it yet. Oh well.

The week started out horrible but ended very good. I am happy. Now if only she would give me those hugs more often tee hee.

Clark Kent · « **Reply #101 on:** September 13, 2004, 10:05:13 am »

Let me guess, she sat on your lap hugging you until the first thing came up?

Glad you had a good time bro- you needed it. Try not to go so long between good times with her again.

EE · « **Reply #102 on:** September 13, 2004, 04:40:21 pm »

haha, well, we wont be talking about that, I had to keep thinking about Grandma,midgets and unicorns the whole time. It was hard, well... no it wasnt but you know what I mean, the situation was tough. Sitting there, thinking about Grandma and midgets and unicorns the whole time, with THE chick sitting in my lap, good smelling perfume, her ex watching, more thinking of granmda, midgets and unicorns and hoping that I dont associate good times, the smell of perfume and other things with grandma, midgets and unicorns.

it was hard......er tough.

Clark Kent · « **Reply #103 on:** September 13, 2004, 05:18:57 pm »

You know, some people are turned on by Grandma, midgets and unicorns...
I know you wanna be respectful and all, but maybe you shouldn't fight it- could lead to problems down the line...

EE · « **Reply #104 on:** September 13, 2004, 08:30:41 pm »

got to fight the urge, its too soon. Well, off to my 14+ hour day at work.

Fight the power!

Clark Kent · « **Reply #105 on:** September 13, 2004, 10:35:54 pm »

Oh come on- just let it pop it's head up for a little peak.

EE · « **Reply #106 on:** September 14, 2004, 04:41:25 pm »

might scare her, she is 5 foot after all.

Clark Kent · « **Reply #107 on:** September 14, 2004, 05:26:28 pm »

I've been thinking about this: see, you don't have much free time on your hands, and probably don't work out much, so I'm betting your lap is a bit bony. She might appreciate the extra support it would offer for her while she's on your lap...

EE · « **Reply #108 on:** September 14, 2004, 08:22:26 pm »

I work out 10+ hours a day. I have dropped 10 pounds since working at P&R Paper but I put on quite a bit of muscle.

Anyways, its official... She has started dating player. She told me today and I know the look on my face told all because well, she didnt look at me the same afterwords. Not in a good mood, not because she is dating someone other then me, I want one of my best friends to be happy, just that she is dating player.

oh well, things come in swarms, nearly break my leg, broken cell phone, car stolen, lock on driver side door breaking this morning and now this. what a freaking week.

Clark Kent · « **Reply #109 on:** September 14, 2004, 11:10:34 pm »

I was afraid this would happen. For some reason women like guys that will screw them, mess with them, make them feel like crap them dump them. DOn't kno wwhy, but they're forty with kids before they figure out that this is not what they want in life.

EE · « **Reply #110 on:** September 15, 2004, 07:23:25 am »

I had a feeling it would happen as well. All I can do now is sit back and watch and wait. If he screws up, hes dead. If he screws her and ditches her, I swear I will screw him and leave him in a ditch.

I have had 8 hours at work today to become very, very angry. I have had 8 hours too long to be allowed to think.

Redshift the Kook · « **Reply #111 on:** September 15, 2004, 12:46:06 pm »

Damn I'm sorry to hear that, as I know he's the last person you wanted her to date. Just don't do anything stupid! If you want to punch this guy at anytime, talk about it here first.

EE · « **Reply #112 on:** September 15, 2004, 04:15:51 pm »

I want to punch him ALL the time. I dislike him, I want to end him. But I cannot until he screws up.

Bonk · « **Reply #113 on:** September 16, 2004, 06:28:06 am »

Quote from: Clark Kent on September 14, 2004, 11:10:34 pm

I was afraid this would happen. For some reason women like guys that will screw them, mess with them, make them feel like crap them dump them. DOn't kno wwhy, but they're forty with kids before they figure out that this is not what they want in life.

Sigh, so very true. I guess if it weren't for that, we would not reproduce at all... survival at the cost of evolution... Myself, I have resisted the temptation to become an idiotic abusive arse, I have too much self respect. I'd rather maintain my integrity and dignity than lower myself to the standard that is rewarded by female affection.

(Please note that I admit this is a gross generalisation, I know a few nice couples where both parties are kind sincere people, but the control factor is always there...)

EE · « **Reply #114 on:** September 16, 2004, 08:07:33 am »

I decided that screw trying to talkto her. She cant make the time to talk, I will make the time to talk with him and lay down some ground rules. Tomorrow is D Day

Engage.

Clark Kent · « **Reply #115 on:** September 16, 2004, 10:23:28 am »

It's a bit late for ground rules man, and besides, I think he knows what you're thinking. Like it or not, things have moved beyond your control.

Redshift the Kook · « **Reply #116 on:** September 16, 2004, 12:17:10 pm »

Yeah I agree Clark. I really think you've got to let her make her own mistakes. It's going to cut you up watching but if you take this guy down, even if he screws her over, you'll come out looking like the bad guy, she'll stick by him more.

It sucks, but it just works like that.

EE · « **Reply #117 on:** September 16, 2004, 07:41:36 pm »

Well, against your advice, I had my talk with him today. Sat there for 2 1/2 hours waiting for him to get off work to talk with him. Pretty much I told him," Sally is one of my best friends and I think this is way to early for her, she is in a fragile state right now. You need to know my ground rules.

1: You hurt her, I hurt you
2: You "F" her and leave her, I "F" you and leave you
3: I am really protective of my friends and very protective of my female friends

Thats the basics, I pretty much let him know that if he screws up, he will pay for it. I also told him I trust her and her choices but I dont trust him at all. I told him I dont like the game he is playing and that in my opinion this is way too early after a 2 1/2 year relationship and that it should have waited longer.

we will see where things go from here and we will see if it gets back to her and if it does, how she handles it.

anyways, I am out of here, need to grab food and then find someplace other then the coffee shop to hang out until work. Some stress has been relieved.

Now if only I could talk to her.

Clark Kent · « **Reply #118 on:** September 16, 2004, 10:07:51 pm »

Oh, it WILL get back to her, and it won't get back to her in terms that are anywhere near favorable, or even truthful for you. Mark my words, this does not bode well.

EE · « **Reply #119 on:** September 17, 2004, 08:53:53 am »

It had to be done.

I also text messaged sally today and told her, " We need to talk when you have time to do so. I noticed that after you told me about you and joe, you had a strange look on your face, likely because of the look on my face and I want to talk to you about that."

I did not recieve a text message back, which was what I expected to happen. I am currently writting a letter to her, which I will be sending to her in 5 days, if she does not respond. I will post it on here later, when its done.

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