Topic: No Easy way to Say this...  (Read 22998 times)

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AlienLXIX

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #120 on: June 08, 2004, 01:34:29 pm »
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If I may ask what is your whole address please, So I can send a symapthy card Its about all I can do Im afraid.
If you dont want to display it here you could pm me.    




Do add me to your pm!  We also would like to send something.  

Sirgod

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #121 on: June 08, 2004, 01:59:30 pm »
My friends, You are all great. I just don't want to put anyone out, as I know a few of you are having a hard time also.

My Address is 1443 NW 29th Street. OKC, OK, 73106.

I will be holding a Memorial at my Son's and Daughter in laws house on Saturday around 1:00 pm. I'm trying to finalize the final details, and get everything Set.

Sethan, One of my dearest friends. I promise you I will grieve in time. Once again, I had to be strong today, as The Remains where Brought to my house this morning. I set up a small area on our Manual, and Have recieved so many cards already.

I want to thank you all for your kindness, And I'll try to call each and everyone as time Permits. It's just been a very Long week so far.


God Bless you all.

Stephen

Khalee

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #122 on: June 08, 2004, 04:36:15 pm »
Well I was at least  able to send a card no how. Should get it by Friday I hope
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Sirgod

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #123 on: June 08, 2004, 09:22:35 pm »
Thank you my friends. Storm, I would appreciate that. I just now got back from setting up those little memorium thingies that are at Funerals.

It will be on Saturday at 1:00 Pm, at My Son's house. However, I still don't have the address, as I just usually go there. It's an Okie thing.

If anyone is planning on coming, Please show up at My house by noon, so we can All travel together.

In many way's, your as much a part of this family as my own Flesh and Blood. Simply Because so many of you went through this whole thing with me and mine for the last 6 months.

Stephen And Denise Smith.

 

manitoba

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #124 on: June 09, 2004, 03:03:34 am »
my deepest and dearest sympaties also my man.  

LongTooth

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #125 on: June 09, 2004, 04:54:53 am »
Very sorry to hear about your nephew sirgod
 

AlienLXIX

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #126 on: June 09, 2004, 06:32:38 pm »
It was really good to hear your voice yesterday Steve.  I trully wish that I had better words to say to your sister.  I tried very hard not to cry but . . .  and it's so hard to speak when you hardly have any breath.  Still it was so good to hear from you.

Sirgod

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #127 on: June 09, 2004, 10:24:17 pm »
Once again My thanks.

alien what you did was Very Kind to say the least. I believe next month, My wife and I will take a trip to Hawaii, If for nothing else, To get away from It all, suspend Belief, and To Basicly give our selves a break. If I can make arrangments with JMM I will also Visit Mexico.

I know this sounds Very Immature my friends, But we need a break away from Alot of stress.

the most important thing right now though is my sister and her loss.

Stephen

Merlinfmct87

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #128 on: June 10, 2004, 12:11:26 am »
Immature?

IMMATURE?!

You have suffered a terrible loss SirGod, I don't have to tell you that. A little suspension of reality is not only healty, in your case it's required. You need some time and seperation to deal with the sucking chest wound you have in your soul.

Even Doctors give morphene to patience under surgery. I see no reason why you should feel exempt from that precedent. The only caution I would say is make sure you don't get hooked on it, you have to come back.

But if you have made it this far you already know that, moreover, you won't let yourself do that for your sister's sake.

Summary: Feel no guilt about the time away from the house. You have already shown great strength in this matter, and it is time you focused on healing.

Take care,

Merlin  

AlienLXIX

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #129 on: June 10, 2004, 02:29:02 am »
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Immature?

IMMATURE?!

You have suffered a terrible loss SirGod, I don't have to tell you that. A little suspension of reality is not only healty, in your case it's required. You need some time and seperation to deal with the sucking chest wound you have in your soul.

Even Doctors give morphene to patience under surgery. I see no reason why you should feel exempt from that precedent. The only caution I would say is make sure you don't get hooked on it, you have to come back.

But if you have made it this far you already know that, moreover, you won't let yourself do that for your sister's sake.

Summary: Feel no guilt about the time away from the house. You have already shown great strength in this matter, and it is time you focused on healing.

Take care,

Merlin  




My sentements also!  Please feel free to come!  You will at least have a roof over your heads!  Just give us a heads up and then we can plan what you want to do or not do.  Anything to help you heal, man.  

Sirgod

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No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #130 on: June 05, 2004, 11:35:36 am »
My Nephew Skyler Passed away sometime last night. My sister woke me up around 8 this morning, and no CPR I could do could help. The ME left about 10:30 or so this morning. So far we Believe It was SIDS, but we won't know for sure untill monday or so.

Please understand that If I seem abit Loopey today, why.

Thanks all, and God Bless.

Stephen

S'Raek

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #131 on: June 05, 2004, 11:56:34 am »
I am very sad to hear that, Sirgod.     My prayers are with you and your family.    

jualdeaux

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #132 on: June 05, 2004, 11:57:08 am »
Really sorry to hear this. You have my prayers.

Sirgod

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #133 on: June 05, 2004, 11:57:36 am »
thanks Guys. BTW, Sethan has my Number If anyone needs me.

Stephen

Iceman

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #134 on: June 05, 2004, 12:04:09 pm »
my god...i'm so sorry sirgod.  
There is nothing worse....nothing...that could have happened....anything I can do, anything at all, tell me please!

Stormbringer

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #135 on: June 05, 2004, 12:21:02 pm »
  You, your sister, your family all have my deepest sympathy. I grieve also. As always, if I can help let me know.  

J. Carney

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #136 on: June 05, 2004, 12:28:36 pm »
God bless you... and especially your sister.

You'll be in our prayers over this way, man.

Sirgod

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #137 on: June 05, 2004, 12:37:58 pm »
Thanks alot guys. The odd part is , there's really nothing I can do untill monday. The house is quit, and It's almost Numb like.It's like It hasn't set in yet.

Stephen

Ryker

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #138 on: June 05, 2004, 12:44:01 pm »
You have my condolences for this tragedy, Stephen- you're in my family's thoughts tonight    

Dallas

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #139 on: June 05, 2004, 12:51:59 pm »
Sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.



 
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