Topic: No Easy way to Say this...  (Read 24321 times)

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SghnDubh

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #100 on: June 06, 2004, 01:56:19 am »

Sorry, bud. My thoughts are to you & yours.

Javora

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #101 on: June 06, 2004, 08:38:55 am »
I so sorry for the loss your family experienced, you have been though so much Stephen mere words feel so insignificant at this point.  I'll be praying that better times come for both you and your loved ones.  Take care.

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Merlinfmct87

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #102 on: June 06, 2004, 02:51:41 pm »
What to say...

I don't know, what is the proper noise to make?

I'll say what is in my heart then: SirGod, the pain you are feeling is something that no body can even begin to understate unless they lost a child--and the only thing that does is demonstrate that each one's loss is unique and painful in it's own way. So no one can relate to the pain you and your sister are feeling.

This does not mean that you are alone, however. Don't be afraid to reach out to your family and your friends here on this fourm, and don't be afraid to stay alone when you need to. This pain won't go away, just as your love of him would not go away, but you will move on nonetheless.

This news has caught me off-guard, as it always does. I can only say this: Celebrate his life. It might have been short, but it was obviously around good people and loving parents, and he obviously gave you much love.

Don't forget that.

I'll light a candle for you tonight SirGod  

TheShadow

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #103 on: June 06, 2004, 04:39:47 pm »
 I am deeply saddened to hear about your loss my friend. No amount of words could ever lessen the grief you and your family are feeling. I am praying for you, your sister, and all of you family. I am so sorry to heart about Skyler!

All my sympathies Stephen.

Will  
 

The_Joker

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #104 on: June 06, 2004, 11:29:16 pm »
I'm sorry to hear this tragic news.  You'll be in our thoughts.    

Netman

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #105 on: June 07, 2004, 12:48:26 am »
Sorry to hear this news Sirgod.. Keep the Love alive, it is what binds us all to each other, no matter where we are.  

Rondo_GE

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #106 on: June 07, 2004, 02:37:25 am »
This is grim news.

I am very sorry SG for your whole family.



 

Dracho

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #107 on: June 07, 2004, 10:08:36 am »
That's hard stuff.  Please accept my deepest sympathy.

 

Wulgaru

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #108 on: June 07, 2004, 10:45:19 am »
Stephen,

I'm truly sorry to hear of your families loss, and my thoughts are with you.  As you mentioned my family had a similar experiance recently, and as such I can understand how you feel.  It's very strange to have to deal with the death of one so young, and the best you can do is be there for your sister.

Once again, my condolences to your family...i'll keep you all in my thoughts.

IndyShark

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #109 on: June 07, 2004, 11:07:57 am »
SirGod, I am truly sorry to hear about your loss. May God be with you and your family.

Lono

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #110 on: June 07, 2004, 01:13:34 pm »

SirGod,

Amy and I are so sorry to hear about your loss.

We will keep your family in our prayers tonight.

May God bless you with peace and strength durring this difficult time.

 

SSCF Hooch

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #111 on: June 07, 2004, 04:48:52 pm »
SG, this is sad news, I will fire one up for you and your sister.

Hooch

AlienLXIX

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #112 on: June 07, 2004, 08:01:53 pm »
Oh gods Sirgod.  There isn't much I can add to what everyone has already said.  I just truly wish that we could do something for you and yours during this time.  Just please know that we love you and think of you.  

Keep the faith my friend.  We will light a fire for your nephew tonight.

Blessed Be Stephen.

Aloha
Amy Smith

Sirgod

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #113 on: June 07, 2004, 10:36:41 pm »
I've been so busy today, that just now was I finilly able to get online. I just wanted to thank Each and everyong of you, who shown there Caring hearts to me and My family.

They say If you have one true friend in this world, your Lucky. With You guys, and Gals, I feel like the luckiest man in the world. I'm working on Setting up a Memorial Service for sometime this week. I paid to have Skyler Cremated yesterday, and I believe his body was released today to the Funeral home.

Of course I'll post here When The time is, as I know I have a few Friends here in the state.

Once again, Thank you all For friendship, Kindness, and anything else I can't remember at this time.

Stephen

Khalee

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #114 on: June 07, 2004, 11:34:01 pm »
You are going to have a empty fealing for a while Even after A year n half I still miss my father. Even tho we never really got along untill the end. And take all the time you need,like they say family first in these kinds of things. Internet would be the last thing I would worry about.
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Stormbringer

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #115 on: June 07, 2004, 11:58:04 pm »
I will be there if at all possible.

Sethan

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #116 on: June 08, 2004, 12:32:52 am »
Stephen - I've been silent on this for a while since we talked because I did not have the right words, and anything I could have said would have sounded formulaic and trite.

I'm still not sure I have the right words, but my heart goes out to you and yours, and I will do my best to say what I mean.

I know you've had to be strong for your family - someone had to be, and that is a burden which fell on your shoulders - but once what has to be done is done, take the time to grieve with them too.  They will need that from you then as much as they needed you to be strong when someone had to be - and you need to be able to grieve too, with people who understand how close to Skyler you were.

Grief shared is grief diminished.

ferretlxix

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #117 on: June 08, 2004, 12:40:46 am »
OMG Stephen,
 I wish I caught this one earlier!  I wish there is something I could truely say to help but, in all truth Sethan stole the boat.
And it not a bad thing because I think for the most part, that is how much we all think.  
You're a great guy and if there is anything I can help you with, just call.

Steve

GE-Raven

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #118 on: June 08, 2004, 10:47:00 am »
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.  My apologies for not responding sooner.  

God Bless you and your family.

Sean
 

Khalee

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Re: No Easy way to Say this...
« Reply #119 on: June 08, 2004, 01:32:36 pm »
If I may ask what is your whole address please, So I can send a symapthy card Its about all I can do Im afraid.
If you dont want to display it here you could pm me.