Thanks for the advice Alien. He'll be 6 weeks old this friday. i'm considering whether I should bring him home this weekend, or wait. If I wait, though, I'll have to wait till the end of june, since I can't get to the farm where he's at on my own, and the friend who can get me there is going to Hawaii next week. Supplies aren't a problem, I know what I need and where to get it, I just need to figure out what this little guy's needs are. I will say, though, that one thing I caannot stand is the smell of cat pee, so if I can't figure out how to handle his problems, he might become an outside cat again quick fast and in a hurry. I won't just toss the guy out the door, or abandon him, but I really need to keep his potty issues under control.
CK
P.S. I like Latinas...
....And apparently Asian ladies as well...