Yeah you are right, Subspace, there MUST be a way to do it otherwise server admins wouldn't be able to play on their own server, I never thought of that. Maybe one of the Gods on High from KOTH or GFL or SFCx or whatever will read this and let us in on their Wisdom.
I just want my girlfriend to be able to play against me so I can beat the snot out of her. She beats me in Civ3 all the time. I want Revenge in my own, particular, errr.... idiom.
SW