Topic: I dont know how to put this (Read 7274 times)

EE · « **on:** March 07, 2004, 10:26:40 am »

Ok.. here is my situation.

EE gets job with chicks dad. (Job is going well by the way) Well, I have been hanging out with boss's daughter quite a bit as of late. As in, almost every day for about 2 1/2 weeks. I have spent more time with her then she has with her boyfriend in the last 2 1/2 weeks. Though, if things were different I would ponder the 'date her' scene but things are not different. Her boyfriend is a good friend of a friend of mine. He seems pretty cool but can be a dick at time (30-60 minutes late ALL the time ). I am cool with being friends and am not trying to bring the relationship past that because to do something like that is not my style. In fact, if given the ability to bring it past that I dont think I would ( I cant say I wont since I have not had that choice thrusted apon me ). She is freaking hot but still, I think I know myself pretty damned well.

Lastnight her and her boyfriend came over and hung out, all seemed well. She got here early and gave me a hug and we walked up to my apt, I had my arm around her shoulder and I think he saw that as he drive up. She ended up bailing at about 10:30pm but her boyfriend decided to kick it until 2am or later. Well, as I was falling asleep lastnight he was talking to a couple of my friend who were over and I heard my name mentioned. I then heard small snips of conversation like, 'you should talk to her' or 'ask her'. I am assuming he was asking my friends if anything was going on between me and her. Nothing is mind you but I can see why he would be curious and I dont blame him at all.

If push comes to shove I dont want to drop him like a bad habit because that is what will happen if he gets in my face, hes a cool guy and all but I still dont consider him a friend, more of a friend of a friends even though we get along.

any suggestions?

ActiveX · « **Reply #1 on:** March 07, 2004, 10:50:53 am »

All you can do is play it how you see it, so I'd wait it out, you could be imagining the connections they were discussing or not...

It's best to not assume anything...

Toasty0 · « **Reply #2 on:** March 07, 2004, 10:52:25 am »

Yeah, and don't take this wrong, but I suggest you keep your paws of his girlfriend until she is not his girlfriend no matter how "chummy" you two are. It just ain't cool and you know it, bro.

Best,
Jerry

TheShadow · « **Reply #3 on:** March 07, 2004, 10:56:36 am »

Talk to him. Tell him the way things are. If that doesnt work, tell him you are sucking up because she is the boss' daughter and want brownie points. Most men will believe the latter. If he's a punk he will tell her. Tell her that he saw you with your arm around her and you told him that to keep down trouble. If he's a punk dick, he will start something, which will look bad to her. If he starts something, drop him like a bag of sh*t. Tell her you didnt want trouble, but he kept pushing. That way he looks like a stupid XXXX. He's out of the way, you look like a nice guy, and she free and clear. Then you'll be in like Flynn.

Work the situation.

My $0.02.

ActiveX · « **Reply #4 on:** March 07, 2004, 10:57:45 am »

Sure you arent one to aim at kneecaps?

EE · « **Reply #5 on:** March 07, 2004, 11:00:03 am »

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Yeah, and don't take this wrong, but I suggest you keep your paws of his girlfriend until she is not his girlfriend no matter how "chummy" you two are. It just ain't cool and you know it, bro.

Best,
Jerry

I am not touching her in that way. I am like this with all my female friends and he should know this, he knows about 70% of them. I was not holding her hand or anything. What it was, was I was on the phone with a friend who lived down the street, she drove up and parked down the street so I went to meet her part way, I walked up, she gave my a hug ( side by side hug ) and I walked with her like that for about 30 feet and then walked up the stairs. nothing happened beyond that.

The Postman · « **Reply #6 on:** March 07, 2004, 11:00:05 am »

Ignore what is going on with him. If he wants to ask you a question or confront you, he will. As to what she is doing, she will have to decide. I was in the same situation as you are now and waited to see what would happen. Eventually she dumped him and married me. He was a jerk as well

EE · « **Reply #12 on:** March 07, 2004, 02:43:41 pm »

Well,what I thought I heard I did hear. I got info from my friend and that one of my other friends brought up the EE and Boss Daughter thing to her BF. He said he had alredy talked to her and asked her if he had anything to worry about and she said no and hes cool about us hanging out and stuff so hes even cooler then I thought. All is good.

Scott Allen Abfalter · « **Reply #15 on:** March 08, 2004, 08:32:35 am »

The mistake was already made with "I've been hanging out for with the boss's daughter quite a bit, of late."

No good can ever come at the end of that story....

JMM · « **Reply #17 on:** March 08, 2004, 04:49:37 pm »

EE, first I would have a talk with her privately, and just be honest about everything, ask the same from her also. It is natural to be attracted to others (even when you are married). I understand you guys and gals are all young, and commitments are a thing of the future. Just make sure she is not a "player." As for your friend? I would talk to him after talking to her, you have not done anything bad "yet," so he has nothing to get angry about. Now what would make me angry is the snippets of conversation from my supposed "friend" and my name being mentioned several times. I would confront him about it and verify through others. If he is lying about what was being said, then I'd say "hey dude, you are a piece of trash and we are no longer friends."

Regardless of how all that works out, just concentrate on your job, that is priority one my friend.

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