All in all, I'm not doing too bad...I sort of expected it, else I wouldn't have come on here looking for advice. I was going to break it off soon because of the problems I mentioned, but she beat me to the punch. I ended up getting drunk with the boys last night, and when she showed up at the bar I said some things I shouldn't have which has caused some tension. I'll try to sort it out with her, but not to gain the relationship back, but instead to keep relations good.
Our expectations from the relationship were different. I wanted something more serious than she did, and that's probably where it ran in to problems.