1. Kitbasher - not for a lack of wanting to mesh my own stuff, I do what I can with the tools available to me, and I've stretched M6 as far as it can go so I want to change over.
2. Method Man: "cash moves everythin around me, cream: get the money, dolla, dolla bill y'all!" ROFL - this is a product of using a program that will randomly crash on you, usually at vital places in the alteration
but yeah it helps to make sure everything is falling into place rather than just dive-bombing throught it and then finding out you've ended up with a Fairy Swordfish instead of a Stuka LOL
3. me no makey _brk.mods at this time so I cannae be commentin.
4.mesh or textures - depends on mood, if I'm in a bad mood texturing is the last thing I want to do as the hours spent messing around with a single detail so it don't look like dogsh!t can be very frustrating and kitbashing a new ship is actually quite a relaxant.
Really the secret I have found with either meshing or kitbashing is messing around, just trying all the different tools in a pogram to see what they can do, eventually you find something that looks cool and so you start to use it more and more.